Happy Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine's Day Jib Jab

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Mario and I have a LOT of fun in our relationship and we wanted to pass on this expression of the fun and love we have in our lives with you.  We hope your life is full of an ever increasing love that lifts you higher every day as ours does.  Take a minute and twenty seconds to watch and enjoy.  We hope it brings a smile to your face.  Remember, “There is GREAT LOVE here for you!”  and be sure to have a Happy Valentine’s Day even if it means being your own Best Valentine!~

Stacy and Mario Jib Jab

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Why do women settle for frogs?

Frog PrinceHow many frogs have you kissed in your lifetime?  Mario and I have a joke that it took me kissing over 100 frogs to find him.  There’s nothing wrong with kissing frogs, but why do women stay in mediocre or even abusive relationships?  Why do we settle for so much less than we deserve?

Times are changing but it wasn’t that long ago when women were taught to be subservient to men.  We were expected to cater to a man’s needs in the kitchen, living room, and bedroom.  Even though women have elevated their status in society, this acquiescent behavior extends to the boardroom, even today, as we still aren’t earning equal pay for equal work.

We were also taught not to speak up to our parents; therefore, many of us don’t have a voice in relationships because we are often dating a person who reminds us of one parent or the other. If a man speaks up for himself he’s considered confident.  If a woman asserts her position she’s a Bitch.  Isn’t it interesting however, that many men will not assert themselves in a relationship, but will make the situation so terrible that women’s hands are forced to do the dirty work? Even if a man is making our lives miserable, many of us still stay in the relationship, why is that?

I believe there are many possible reasons we subject ourselves to relationship torture: [Read more…]

Healing your Heartaches

Clearing up emotional wounds from the past so you can attract love into your life Now!

Healing HeartOne of the most frequent things I observe when working with clients is their lack of willingness to face the pain and trauma of the one thing that trips them up most when looking for love – their childhood.   It’s understandable to a degree since we’re programmed to move toward pleasure and away from pain; however our soul came here for the experience of the contrast of our existence, and to find our way back to peace.  The choice to remain mired in the pain of our childhood wounds keeps us stuck.  When the pain of staying stuck becomes greater than the pain of pushing through and Healing your Heartaches, you will do the work and change, which will allow you to finally attract the high quality love you’ve been looking for, for so long. [Read more…]

101 Acts of Self Love

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  • Treat yourself to a bath today and caress your body with wonderful salts, gels, and oils #MYMSL
  • Take a 10 minute walk today for no reason other than to soak up the sights, sounds, and smells of nature. #MYMSL
  • Commit to only saying kind words to yourself today #MYMSL
  • Do something for someone else just because… #MYMSL
  • Give yourself permission to read a book – take the entire day if you like. #MYMSL
  • What is something you’ve always wanted to do? Find a girlfriend to go do it with you, or go alone #MYMSL
  • When was the last time you had a pedicure? If you have one regularly go for the gusto and get the spa version this time. #MYMSL
  • Why not take yourself to dinner tonight? #MYMSL
  • Visit a sick ward in a pediatric hospital and bring Teddy Bears! #MYMSL [Read more…]

Feeling Lost in your Search for Love?

Mario was working on one of our properties the other day when he came down from one of the units carrying a very heavy bag. Even though his gut told him not to, he placed his keys on the tailgate of his truck so that he could dump the bag in the dumpster.

His truck key always stays in the ignition of the truck – so he didn’t need his key ring to drive the truck away. You can imagine what happened next. He dumped the bag, got into his truck and drove half a mile to our office. Once he arrived at our office, he couldn’t get in because he didn’t have his keys. So, he drove back to look for them and they were nowhere to be found.

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He called me in a panic because he had a lot of important keys on that key ring, such as the keys to our office, my vehicle, the master keys to all of our apartments, and many others. I offered to help him find them, because I’m excellent at finding things, and I’m very good with keys. (One time I left a bag of keys on the back of my car and I drove away. I realized it immediately, went back to find them, and found every last one.)

I also have very good vision, so I drove the route that he took, and looked for his keys, while he walked it. As he meandered down the road, someone he knew drove by and asked him what he lost. This made Mario uncomfortable because this fellow was not very trustworthy, and if this guy got a hold of the keys, there would be reason to worry. [Read more…]

Law of Attraction in Action

As I packed for my workshop in Toronto a day earlier than normal (Mario calls me ‘Last Minute Lucy’), I realized, at 10:00 at night — two days before my flight –that my passport had expired.

Oh no! Now what was I going to do?

I stopped everything (because what’s the point of finishing packing if I can’t get through customs, right?) and went online to see what I could do.

Lo and behold, if I traveled within the next two weeks and had proof (which I did), I could go to to the Department of State’s Boston office because they have the authority to prepare Passports on site.

Yes!

They also allowed me to use their 24-hour appointment scheduling service to schedule my appointment. So I did. The next available appointment was 8:30 the next morning.

Woo Hoo!

I had all the documentation I needed, except I didn’t have any passport photos. I called CVS and Walgreens and their photo departments closed at 10pm. I was too late. I looked online for a 24-hour passport photo service, with no luck. [Read more…]

20 Seconds Makes Your Heart Beat Stronger

couple intimate dinnerI recently had a coaching call with one of my clients, Doris, from the UK who was feeling a bit remorseful about having to spend another birthday alone. (By the way, if you’re reading this – Happy Birthday!) She desperately wanted to meet her man and have him take her out to a lovely dinner – where they would dress up, go to a nice place, and she could feel the romantic connection with her life partner on her special day.

I asked her where she would want him to take her, and she mentioned a restaurant by the sea she wanted to try. I suggested that she may want to affirm the presence of her man coming to her by making a reservation, dressing up, and taking herself out to that place this year – to more concretely imagine the experience with him. I recommended she could invite a girlfriend to join her on her romantic experience if she didn’t want to eat alone. [Read more…]

Quote – Love is discovery…

” Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.”
~ Alexander Smith

Your task is not to seek for love…

Find Love“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~Rumi

Be the Love you are Looking for

RosesObviously you survived another Valentine’s Day. Are you feeling lonely because you didn’t have anyone to share it with? Do you wish you could have received flowers like all your other lucky girlfriends? Or would you just be happy to find your man no matter what he ended up doing for you on V-Day?

I know how you’re feeling because I was there too. Often, I would pick up flowers for myself to help me feel good, so I could simply enjoy their beauty. I always bought exactly what I wanted and imagined it was my man giving them to me.

Mario didn’t buy me flowers this Valentine’s Day, but I’m ok with that because he did make me breakfast in bed. He told me told me that any day could be Valentine’s Day and we could celebrate any time and any way that we wanted. I told him that every day is Valentine’s Day with him because I never know when he’s going to surprise me. [Read more…]